I blog hopped to this blog via Miss Minnie. I think its a fantastic blog.
You do not need to pay $24 bucks to get the book or the DVD of "The Secret". All you need is common sense and this blog in life. :*) Well that is my opinion.
Here are snippets of two of my favourite post....
How to Stop Complaining..
Consider how the foods you eat condition your body. You aren’t
really going to become the next meal you eat, but that meal is going to
influence your physiology, and if you keep eating the same meals over
and over, they’ll have a major impact on your body over time. Your
body will crave and expect those same foods. However, your
body remains separate and distinct from the foods you eat, and you’re
still free to change what you eat, which will gradually recondition
your physiology in accordance with the new inputs.
This is why negative thinking is so addictive. If you keep holding
negative thoughts, you condition your mind to expect and even crave
those continued inputs. Your neurons will even learn to predict the
reoccurrence of negative stimuli. You’ll practically become a
negativity magnet.
- Assuming total responsibility
- If I’m unhappy, it’s because I’m creating it.
- If there’s a problem in the world that bothers me, I’m responsible for fixing it.
- If someone is in need, I’m responsible for helping them.
- If I want something, it’s up to me to achieve it.
- If I want certain people in my life, I must attract and invite them to be with me.
- If I don’t like my present circumstances, I must end them.
Life Sucks, Then You Die
Don’t settle for a life you know isn’t working. Change it. If
necessary do something radically different. Fire everyone who doesn’t
make you feel good about yourself. Quit everything that makes you
unhappy. Reboot your life situation. If other people whine about it,
screw ‘em. They’ll get over it.
You’re here to create the life you really want, not to endure a life
you don’t want. Your power to make decisions and take action is all
you need to get you out of a crappy situation. Exercise that power
consciously.
I stopped hanging out with unsupportive friends, stopped drinking,
stopped gambling, moved to a new place, started running, and
reconnected with some positive old friends. I made lots and lots of
changes. If I couldn’t figure out what would be better, I just went
for different. And it worked.
If you’re going through a tough time right now, I feel for you. I’m
saying that as someone who’s been there. Obviously I haven’t been
through the same experiences you have, and we can compare notes about
who had it worse later, but I know what it feels like to feel that life
is totally pointless. I know what it feels like to wake up each
morning with the hazy hope of finding something mildly interesting to
do that day… but always being disappointed with the reality. I know
what it’s like to look towards the future and see nothing to look
forward to of any consequence, aside from the shallow possibility of a
new movie or game to distract me a while longer.
So if you are feeling blue one day, stop, step back, assess, take a deep breath and then continue walking. If in doubt just headbutt everyone out of the way.
I use to think that my life sucks. Sure it sucked at that time but then I try to surround myself with people who loves me for who I am. I surround myself with people who tells me the truth even though it hurts. I take their (friends) advice assess it and if it does not work for me then I will tell them thank you so much for caring and then not ask them "what should I do?" again and again and again and again. Believe me they will get sick of you because they already gave you their humble opinion.
I realise also that people do talk about other people and that is human nature. I use to take it to heart about what people think about me but now not so much. It is a tiring job to make everyone happy. So if you do not like the people around you, I suggest that you keep them at an arms length.
This is my life's guide.